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This week: We’re sharing a skill that will help you feel calmer and more resilient in difficult times, when you can’t do anything to improve your situation. Let’s get into it.

Disclaimer: This content is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment or advice.

The self-soothing skill is all about what feels good to you.

When using the self-soothing skill, it’s important to release all pressure and judgments about what you “should” be doing instead.

If your self-soothing activity happens to involve something that’s productive? That’s great! But productivity is not the goal.

Self-soothing is a distress tolerance skill. These are designed to help you survive difficult moments — nothing more, and nothing less.

Regulating your emotions and acting effectively comes later, when you’ve restored some sense of balance.

With this in mind, let’s explore how to self-soothe with each of the 6 senses!

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Now, here’s your blueprint for self-soothing this week and beyond!

We’ve included techniques for all energy levels. Keep these tips and examples in mind when creating your own self-soothing kit!

Tip: Choose colors and visuals that you find appealing. Items in your physical environment work best, but self-soothing with screens is okay, too!

Examples: Flowers, sunsets, aesthetic visuals

Tip: You might feel drawn to different types of music or sounds depending on the emotion you’re feeling — for example, soft lofi for sadness, or heavy metal for anger.

Examples: Audiobooks, playlists, ambient sounds

Tip: You don’t have to get super elaborate here with incense and essential oils. The scents of everyday things, like your laundry detergent, work too!

Examples: Candles, soaps, baked goods

Tip: Include any textures or items that you like making contact with or help you feel comfortable. Everything counts, including your clothes and accessories!

Examples: Fidget toys, fluffy blankets, jewelry

Tip: Please be kind to yourself — it’s okay to treat yourself to an “unhealthy” snack or dessert here. Remember, no judgments!

Examples: Fruit, tea, cake

Tip: Apart from general exercise safety, there are virtually no rules when it comes to movement. Gently explore how your body and mind are feeling in this moment to find what feels best for you.

Examples: Gentle stretches in bed, short walks, high-intensity cardio, strength exercises

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Create a calming atmosphere for self-soothing with Flocus.

From relaxing backgrounds worlds to ambient sounds and chill music, Flocus helps you unwind in a way that’s personal to you. Customize your space with focus timers to balance productivity and relaxation.

Now it’s your turn — using these tips and examples, try out your own self-soothing kit this week, and let us know how it goes!

Until next Sunday,

Flocus Team