🧸 Cozy Season Reset 101

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This week: The last couple weeks, we’ve shared tips for surviving the end-of-year scramble. Today, we’re looking ahead to the restful period: exploring what “cozy” means to you, and sharing some ways you can rest and recharge without apology this holiday season. Scroll on for the scoop!

🧸 Let’s Get Cozy

What do you think of when you hear the word “cozy”?

You might picture the usuals: plush blankets, warm beverages, mood lighting, soothing music, your favorite movies.

But what feels cozy to you, specifically?

We challenge you to think outside the IG “cozycore” aesthetic that’s common in so many productivity circles.

For example, cooking one of your favorite meals might not seem cozy to some folks, but it certainly counts.

So does braving the rain for a sweet treat at your favorite cafe. Or tinkering with your latest carpentry project while blaring a heavy metal playlist.

Sure, there might be a little work involved — maybe even a little discomfort before you can get to the cozy part.

So if you’re not someone who vibes with all the stereotypes around “coziness”, it’s okay to create your own definition and do what feels best to you.

On that note, let’s explore how you can carry this energy through your holiday season for a proper recharge.

🔋 How to Recharge This Holiday Season

With your own definition of “coziness” in mind, here are a few things you can try to give yourself the extended break you deserve.

🫶 Give yourself permission

The end-of-year crunch can be busy and overwhelming. With so much happening, it’s easy to convince ourselves we “don’t have time” to rest.

But by denying ourselves this basic need, especially at this time of year, we’re doing ourselves a huge disservice.

2025 has been a doozy. You deserve some time to decompress before barreling straight into the new year.

If it feels impossible, try these affirmations:

• Not only do I deserve rest, but I need it.

• I allow myself to rest, unapologetically and without judgment.

• I’m grateful I have this time and space to rest, recharge, and refill my cup.

🫷Create “buffers” for holiday events

From school ceremonies to work parties to family dinners, this season often involves lots of socializing.

For so many people, and for so many reasons, all the holiday messaging about spending time with family can be more triggering than enjoyable.

If that’s true for you, have some buffers ready to go for any holiday happenings to conserve your social battery. Here are a few of our faves:

• A list of affirmations, reminders, and coping techniques

• Fidgets, like keychains, toys, and small plushies

• Planning an activity before and after to help you recover

If things get really intense, take a breather in the bathroom, or step outside for some fresh air — as many times as you need.

🐢 Go slow, light, and gentle with your holiday goals

The last couple weeks of December, it can be tempting to “catch up” on all the habits we’ve been neglecting the rest of the year.

Many folks also go deep on end-of-year reviews and new productivity methods for the coming year (like shiny planners and habit trackers).

And as helpful as those tools can be, they can add even more pressure and tricky emotions to an already stressful time.

It’s okay to put the planner down, step away from all the reviews, trackers, and routines, and just exist — imperfectly, unapologetically, without guilt.

Whatever your goals are for this season, ask yourself: How can I slow things down even more? Does this goal help me treat myself with gentle acceptance?

🥾 Know it’s okay to do something “different”

This one contradicts our last tip slightly — but if the thought of “recharging” or “doing nothing” for 2 weeks sparks more anxiety than excitement? That’s okay. You’re not alone, and it’s totally normal.

So many people, including us here on the Flocus Team, need some kind of “work” to sustain us, even during restful periods.

And hey, passive rest (like napping and watching TV) isn’t the only kind of rest.

“Active” rest (like hiking and reading) lets you recharge while also giving your brain and body something low-key to do.

🪅 Flocus Picks

A curated list of things worth sharing.

• 4 Ways to Care for Yourself in Tough Times (The Flow Archives) — More reminders and self-care tactics to keep in your back pocket this season

• moss melodies (Video) — Immerse yourself in 2+ hours of live, healing guitar played in a verdant forest

• Affirmations for Rest and Relaxation (Article) — Restful activities and 50+ affirmations for those times when unwinding feels impossible

✨ Flocus: Your Personal Productivity Dashboard

When life slows down, your tools should too. Flocus helps you keep things simple, intentional, and cozy, so you can recharge without feeling behind.

Go to Flocus

From all of us here at Flocus, we wish you and your people a nourishing holiday season filled with all the things that feel good to you 💜

Until next Sunday,

Flocus Team

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